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Out of my three long-term relationship, only one has been with a woman.I think it's taken me this long to date a woman because I don't meet as many gay or bisexual women in my day to day life.Or could it be that, when it comes to romance between queer women, the game has been rigged from the start?
It doesn't mean your bisexuality was "just a phase" or you only made out with that girl for attention or whatever nonsense people are chortling at you when you get into a straight relationship. Just like being a virgin doesn't stop you from being straight or gay, if you're currently not sleeping with anyone of the same gender, it doesn't mean you're not attracted to them. If you identify as bisexual you've probably been told that you're lying, that it doesn't exist, or that you're not a "real" bisexual unless you sexual history is split right down the middle between men and women. It might be enough to keep you from even exploring bisexuality in a real way— or at all.
Luckily, she's not that kind of girl and has no problem dating bi people, but the fact that it's out there— an option to 'filter me out'— just makes me feel gross.
There's a fear that bi people are just lying and they're going to leave you for a straight relationship and heteronormative privilege after they're done experimenting.
I'm a bisexual in a lesbian relationship and was totally shocked to read how rare that is.
According to Kristina Marusic at Slate: "The massive 2013 Pew Research LGBT Survey found 84 percent of self-identified bisexuals in committed relationships have a partner of the opposite sex, while only nine percent are in same-sex relationships." Which made me go: Really? I'm not arguing with the numbers, I'm just surprised the numbers are so... I assumed that, just based on how many people identify as straight, you would find the majority of bisexuals in straight relationships, but with a whopping 84 percent of them — it just seems too big of a percentage to be just that. "It goes back to societal 'norms,'" Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure, tells Bustle.
As a bisexual woman myself, I can’t deny that something about this stereotype that rings true; bi women do seem to romantically engage, or “end up” with men far more often than with woman.